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Self-Actualizing Maslow; My Mentor, My Muse

© copyright 2007 Betsy L. Angert I have never been interested in Tom, Dick, or Harry foolery. I am attracted to Abraham. Today, April 1 is the anniversary of his birth. Abraham Maslow was born on this day in 1908. Since my own birth, I was a serious soul. I suspect I was prior to my Earthly conception. Never once have I taken part in an April Fool's Day prank. I know not the history of this "holiday." I only trust that it did not originate with me.

I recall when I was younger, and still, the same today, women would say 'I am looking for a man with a sense of humor.' Perhaps, I do not have one for the possibility bores me. In truth, it concerns me. I think it offensive to laugh at others, or at the expense of others. Sadly, more often than not, these are the dynamics involved in what people think hilarious.

I want to share with serious spirits, persons of substance. I long for a reciprocal reverence. Rarely, what passes for humor is an homage to humankind. The sacrifice of any entity, I believe scars the soul. Thus, on this the day of April 1 I offer no jest. I share what for me is profound. It is not that I object to laughter. I subscribe to the words of Horace Walpole.

For those who think, life is a comedy.
For those who feel, life is a tragedy.
~ Horace Walpole [Father of Gothic Novels, Member of Parliament]

Couples, Communication and Caring ©

In a nation where forty plus, fifty, or sixty percent of marriages end in divorce, [depending who whose statistics you trust] the topic of companionship and connections is a must. In a country where many are separated, where children are left alone, and families are not intact, the quality of relationships is a necessary consideration. This week, the New York Times addressed this concern in two articles, Marriage Is Not Built on Surprises and Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying. I, as many do, have an active interest in this matter.

Yesterday, I spoke with an acquaintance. She seems to be happy in her current relationship; she says she is. I remember when her beau was a source of great stress. Jess was involved in his work and Lisa wanted him to be concerned with her. She tried and tried to change what was. Lisa turned to other men; Jess was upset. Still, transformation was slow in coming. The relationship came and went, repeatedly. Now the two are one, or are they?

Why I Write and Write, Then Write Again ©

Looking back, I understand that I was teaching myself to write.
~ Mary Wesley [British Author, 1912 to 2002] I write, I write, I always write.
~ Tom Araya [Vocalist, Bassist, Thrash Metal Band. Slayer. Born 1961 to present]

Many authors have broached the question, “Why do I write?” World renowned, science fiction writer, George Orwell penned a memorable and oft-mentioned exposé on the topic. This novelist knew at the early age of five that he “should” be a writer. I struggle with the idea of what we "should" do and apparently, Mr. Orwell did as well. He did not do as he thought he “should” until his mid-twenties. If only I had my awakening that early in my life.